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The Still Mind Podcast
Wendi Renay is a creator, speaker, and mental-wellness educator known for her grounded, direct, psychology-infused approach to personal growth.
She began her online presence in 2021 under the brand DevOUT, where she documented her journey of leaving a high-control religious environment and rebuilding her identity from scratch.
Her honesty and clarity resonated deeply with listeners navigating similar transitions, quickly building a loyal community.
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March 17, 2026
Living on "Almost"
What does it mean to live in the eventual?
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For those of us who survived high-control religion, narcissistic abuse, or any environment that required us to defer our own lives, eventually becomes more than a word. It becomes a way of existing. We stay in situations that are almost right. We pursue dreams that live permanently just out of reach. We reset every morning and call it grace. We wait for the fuller version of our lives to arrive while the present one keeps moving witho
www.wendirenay.com
For those of us who survived high-control religion, narcissistic abuse, or any environment that required us to defer our own lives, eventually becomes more than a word. It becomes a way of existing. We stay in situations that are almost right. We pursue dreams that live permanently just out of reach. We reset every morning and call it grace. We wait for the fuller version of our lives to arrive while the present one keeps moving witho
Dec. 19, 2025
If You Feel Everything, This Episode Is for You
If you take on other people’s moods, assume everything is your fault, or feel drained after simple interactions, this episode is for you. Wendi breaks down the difference between absorbing emotions and reflecting them, and why learning this skill can completely change your peace, your relationships, and your sense of self. You’ll hear a grounded, honest look at why we internalize other people’s feelings—and how to stay centered without shutting down your empathy. Work with Wendi: 1:1 mentorin
Dec. 15, 2025
This Is Why You Still Don’t Feel Confident
For 1:1 mentorship click here In this episode, Wendi Renay challenges the conventional belief that confidence must precede action. She emphasizes that confidence is a result of taking action, not a prerequisite. Wendi discusses how waiting for the right moment or feeling ready can hinder personal growth. Instead, she advocates for making micro-decisions and taking risks to build self-trust and confidence. By acting despite fear and uncertainty, individuals can unlock their potential and creat
Dec. 12, 2025
When You Miss Them, Listen To This
For 1:1 mentorship, click here! In this episode, we talk honestly about why you miss them, why you start romanticizing the past, and why distance makes everything look clearer than it really was — like dirt settling at the bottom of a water glass. We also talk about the urge to check their socials, how it slows healing, and why stepping back from social media is one of the quickest ways to rebuild yourself. You’ll walk away with practical tools you can use today to help you move through the lo
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