WAY TOO MUCH, & *JUST* GETTING STARTED

The kindest way someone will ever try to control you doesn't sound like control at all. It sounds like love. It sounds like worry.


It sounds like someone who just wants what's best for you. A few years ago, someone I loved sent me a letter trying to talk me out of a decision I'd already made. It was warm. It was heartfelt. And it took me years to understand what it was actually doing.


In this video I walk through that letter line by line — not to relive it, but because the pattern inside i

What does it mean to live in the eventual?
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For those of us who survived high-control religion, narcissistic abuse, or any environment that required us to defer our own lives, eventually becomes more than a word. It becomes a way of existing. We stay in situations that are almost right. We pursue dreams that live permanently just out of reach. We reset every morning and call it grace. We wait for the fuller version of our lives to arrive while the present one keeps moving witho

If you take on other people’s moods, assume everything is your fault, or feel drained after simple interactions, this episode is for you.

Wendi breaks down the difference between absorbing emotions and reflecting them, and why learning this skill can completely change your peace, your relationships, and your sense of self.

You’ll hear a grounded, honest look at why we internalize other people’s feelings—and how to stay centered without shutting down your empathy.

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In this episode, Wendi Renay challenges the conventional belief that confidence must precede action.

She emphasizes that confidence is a result of taking action, not a prerequisite. Wendi discusses how waiting for the right moment or feeling ready can hinder personal growth.

Instead, she advocates for making micro-decisions and taking risks to build self-trust and confidence. By acting despite fear and uncertainty, individuals can unlock their potential and creat