The Still Mind Podcast

Podcast

March 17, 2026

Living on "Almost"

What does it mean to live in the eventual?
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For those of us who survived high-control religion, narcissistic abuse, or any environment that required us to defer our own lives, eventually becomes more than a word. It becomes a way of existing. We stay in situations that are almost right. We pursue dreams that live permanently just out of reach. We reset every morning and call it grace. We wait for the fuller version of our lives to arrive while the present one keeps moving witho...
Dec. 19, 2025

If You Feel Everything, This Episode Is for You

If you take on other people’s moods, assume everything is your fault, or feel drained after simple interactions, this episode is for you.

Wendi breaks down the difference between absorbing emotions and reflecting them, and why learning this skill can completely change your peace, your relationships, and your sense of self.

You’ll hear a grounded, honest look at why we internalize other people’s feelings—and how to stay centered without shutting down your empathy.

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Dec. 15, 2025

This Is Why You Still Don’t Feel Confident

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In this episode, Wendi Renay challenges the conventional belief that confidence must precede action.

She emphasizes that confidence is a result of taking action, not a prerequisite. Wendi discusses how waiting for the right moment or feeling ready can hinder personal growth.

Instead, she advocates for making micro-decisions and taking risks to build self-trust and confidence. By acting despite fear and uncertainty, individuals can unlock their potential and creat...
Dec. 12, 2025

When You Miss Them, Listen To This

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In this episode, we talk honestly about why you miss them, why you start romanticizing the past, and why distance makes everything look clearer than it really was — like dirt settling at the bottom of a water glass. We also talk about the urge to check their socials, how it slows healing, and why stepping back from social media is one of the quickest ways to rebuild yourself.

You’ll walk away with practical tools you can use today to help you move through the lo...
Dec. 8, 2025

What Nobody Tells You About Being an Empath

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In this conversation, Wendi Renay delves into the world of empaths, exploring their unique ability to sense emotional cues and navigate complex emotional landscapes.

She discusses how empaths often take on the role of fixers and stabilizers in their environments, highlighting the challenges they face due to their heightened sensitivity.

empaths, emotional intelligence, sensitivity, emotional cues, conflict resolution
Dec. 5, 2025

Why Your Mind Runs Ahead of Your Life

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In this conversation, Wendi Renay explores the concept of overthinking, reframing it as a protective mechanism rather than a flaw.

She discusses how overthinking often stems from heightened awareness and past trauma, leading individuals to anticipate emotional outcomes to avoid pain.

Wendi emphasizes the importance of understanding the roots of overthinking and finding ways to create safety within oneself to mitigate its effects.

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Dec. 1, 2025

Overthinking: Why Your Brain Does What It Does

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In this conversation, Wendi Renay explores her journey of confronting trauma and understanding the complexities of her nervous system.

She reflects on her experiences in a high-control environment and how it shaped her perception of self-regulation and emotional well-being.

Wendi emphasizes the importance of recognizing that feelings of inadequacy stem from dysregulation rather than personal failure, leading to a deeper understanding of healing and personal growth.
Nov. 28, 2025

Before You React, Do This

You’ll learn:
• why your nervous system reacts before your mind does
• the four reactive styles and how to recognize yours
• how to pause, regulate, and choose a tone you actually feel proud of
• feminine communication that doesn’t abandon your boundaries
• real scripts you can use today
Nov. 26, 2025

The Unexpected Joy of Unlearning Everything

What if the beliefs you were raised with are the very things keeping you from peace?


In this episode, Wendi Renay opens up about the panic, clarity, and deep inner shift that come with unlearning old identities—about marriage, divorce, high-control religion, and how the world really works.


Through story and psychology, Wendi explores the nervous system, executive function, and the quiet joy that comes when you finally return to yourself.
Nov. 17, 2025

7 Signs You’re Mentally Overloaded (and Don’t Even Know It)

If you’ve been feeling scattered, foggy, or just “off” — this episode is for you. Wendi Renay breaks down what mental overload really is, how the brain quietly hits capacity, and seven subtle signs you might be running on empty without realizing it.


Learn what’s actually happening in your nervous system, how to reclaim clarity, and why stillness—not productivity—is the reset your mind has been asking for.


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